Orgasms can be one of the best feelings in the world, to have that change your mood completely isn’t just incredible, it’s a gift from God. The road to female orgasm can be complicated and unfair and a lot of guys have difficulty in navigating this.
So, here is a simple list of things guys need to know about female orgasms, as compiled by Mary Patterson Broome,Women’s Health. Guys, check out these clues from women.
1. Even when the moans aren’t loud, it still feels so good
Sometimes when the orgasms don’t come loud ass screaming, it still feels good. The fact she isn’t moaning and curling her toes that much doesn’t mean it doesn’t feel good. So, take the win and move on.
2. Using your fingers doesn’t bring orgasm
The finger in the vagina works for some ladies and not so much for others. Don’t think everyone will enjoy it and will bring down orgasms. To be able to bring a woman to orgasm with fingers requires skill and perhaps lots of practice. Therefore, learn how it works, don’t just put it down there searching for things. Orgasms can be erratic.
3. Not all orgasms ‘cum’ the same way
You can be easily led to think because orgasm happened through something you did some time ago can happen again the same way you’ve done it, might be very misleading.
4. You can’t always skip foreplay
By now, you would have known or heard that foreplay are required before sex unless it’s a quickie or something you’re trying out with your partner. You can’t dive in straight into penetration. If you don’t know this, you shouldn’t be having sex.
5. Sex without orgasm is still beautiful
Not all sex ends in orgasm but it doesn’t mean she isn’t having a good time. Don’t beat yourself up, the sexual act itself is quite good and enjoyable. Just know that despite your best effort in the sack, she might not achieve orgasm, but the sex is still so good. Don’t beat yourself up.
6. Don’t assume orgasm has happened
Depending on what you see in her composure during or after sex, do not think orgasm happened. Maybe don’t think of popping the champagne yet or congratulate yourself in the mirror despite her body language. It can be seriously enjoyed.
7. Don’t also assume orgasm didn’t happen as well
So, this victory didn’t come with the explosion it usually comes with throughout her body. The orgasm was more subtle. Because she didn’t have that screaming session with eye appearing to roll into her skull doesn’t mean she didn’t have an orgasm, maybe just a gentle one.
8. Clitoral orgasm is different from vaginal orgasm, not the same thing
Just in case you didn’t know, they are different. Sadly, some men cannot even locate the clitoris. Some ladies can achieve orgasm from the clitoris, and other from penetrative sex, and some are also lucky to be able to achieve both, lucky ladies.
9. Nipple orgasms are real
Now that you know, they’re not to be treated lightly. I know guys who are into boobs spend more time there. You’ve just discovered that nipple can be orgasmic so start taking them seriously.
10. The body can be over sensitive, sometimes
Even with men, there are times that the male organs can be extra sensitive, when this happens to females, it just means take it easy or check back later. Same way you allow your hot food cool off so it doesn’t burn your tongue.
11. Toys don’t take anything away from your masculinity
Some men feel ladies using toys in the bedroom, emasculates them. They seem to think some women favour those toys over men. Seriously, there will always be a place for the penis.
