A lot of people have fantasized about having a threeway, even if it is only to try to imagine what it will be like. If you have never done this before and you are planning to, it is important to go in having realistic expectations. Below are a few things no one tells you about having threesomes.
It is nothing like p0rn: P0rn actors have a script they follow. They know what to do and when to do it because they have been told. Reality is so much more different than that. Picture bodies making funny noises or having to readjust positions because you are not getting it right. Basically, there are imperfections to expect, so, bear that in mind and do not take that to mean you cannot have a good time.
It can get confusing: With so much bodies and limbs writhing in bed, it can get pretty confusing. You are not sure where to touch and who to please. The best tip is for you to avoid over-thinking things and just go with the flow.
You will need your humour: You will certainly be frustrated with threesomes if you do not have a sense of humour. Laughing is an easy way to diffuse any discomfort and let go when your fantasy doesn’t go perfectly.
Be open-minded: There are three people in bed now, and this means more chances for someone to want to try something new. Do not break set boundaries, but also do not be so rigid that you do not try something you have never done before. You might even end up discovering something you will go on to love.
You need to include all: Do not be tempted to exclude someone because you will rather be with the other person. Make sure you include all parties. Having a threeway means you have prepared yourself to please more than just one person.
Your mouth will always be busy: Whether it be kissing or getting kissed; licking or getting licked, your mouth will almost always be busy. Prepare for this.
Expect lots of fluids: Lubricants, sweat, and more… Basically, things get a little wet and sticky during a threesome. Be prepared to need a good shower immediately after and you probably might need to do laundry the next day.
